From her inspiring debut memoir, On Being Human, writer Jennifer Pastoloff examines the construct of the Inner Asshole (IA.) – that voice that separates us from Love. In her words,” I’m not gonna let it be the boss of me anymore. It can still be there but I’m the boss. I’m going to quiet it down. Your IA is the one who tells you all your bullshit stories. You ready to tell your IA to STFU? you in?” We’re are. Wear this cuff, and be reminded: DON’T BE AN ASSHOLE.